Please stop sending your puppies to doggie daycare w/ the expectation that they’re going to receive training while there

@asmit421 Ok, well enrichment & socialization are basic tenets of any reputable daycare; and they are entirely diff from training. I’m aware that there are facilities that offer all three; but there are also many that don’t (including mine). And for a dog owner to get upset w/ their facility for not providing something that A) they never advertised, and B) the owner in question never asked about; but just took for granted would be included; is not the fault of the facility. If an owner wants obedience training then they should do their research beforehand- like that just seems to be the bare minimum, to me.
 
@heartfire I didn't say it's the facilities fault. I'm saying if your customers have unfounded expectations understanding how those expectations may arise is an important step in being able to appropriately manage them
 
@asmit421 You seem to be under the impression that I own this business. I don’t. I’m a manager; not an owner; I have absolutely zero control over things like web presence, advertising, public relations, etc, etc. I make the schedule & organize the playgroups. Tho- for the record- our website does clearly state that we do not offer training; as well as clearly stating which kinds of dogs are generally suited for daycare; and which are not. It also details the potential consequences of daycare for the dogs who are not well-suited; in particular young puppies who haven’t been properly trained/ socialized. We also lay this all out the owners during their dogs behavior evals (which they have to pass in order to enroll in the first place).

So once again- I’m gonna go ahead & say there’s nothing more I can do. Idk if you work in the customer service industry; but there’s always gonna be confidently incorrect ppl demanding something from you that you’ve told them is unavailable to them. And then demonizing you for (surprise, surprise!) not being able to give them what they want. Again, ppl are uneducated & entitled. It’s not my job to try and change them. In fact; that’s one of the main reasons I chose to work with mainly dogs instead of people, in the first place.
 
@leafar Oh yeah, all the time. Every prospective owner needs to fill out a background info application; and every prospective dog needs to complete (and ofc pass) a behavior evaluation; in order to enroll in daycare. But the standards of the eval aren’t too steep- basically; as long as a dog doesn’t show overly aggressive, or overly fearful tendencies; they’re gonna make it in. This leaves us w/ a bunch of really bold, friendly, and outgoing, dogs- but not necessarily w/ a bunch of well-behaved dogs. The more energetic/ rowdy (i.e. naughty) dogs get their own group; w/ the most experienced handlers. They also generally get more “rest” time in the boarding suites throughout the day- essentially meaning that they get cool-down breaks.

Ofc it goes w/o saying that there are plenty of reasons (other than aggression & fearfulness) why a dog wouldn’t be a good fit for daycare; but it’s hard to assess them all in a one-day eval. If a dog starts showing bad behaviors (mouthiness, mountiness, herding, fence-fighting, gate-jumping, demand-barking, overcorrecting, poking, play-escalation, etc etc) they start to rack up warnings (which ofc are communicated to the owners; usually along w/ a recommendation that the dog see a professional trainer or behaviorist). We do actually have certain methods that we try; in order to solve the problem ourselves (for instance; if a dog is fence-fighting; we’ll try crating him every time someone has to go thru the fence; or if one dog is play-escalating too much w/ another; we’ll make a special note to keep them in separate groups going forward). But if these methods don’t work; and if the dog in question continues racking up enough warnings; they’ll be dismissed. In spite of all this; their owners are generally still quite shocked that A) we can’t just solve the problem for them; and B) that this means their dog can’t stay at our facility.

I try to address it gently but firmly w/ these customers who get overly confrontational & defensive over their dogs dismissal- I sort of have a form-letter response for them to the effect of “As we stated on our website, and in your onboarding paperwork, daycare is a privilege that a dog has to earn. Not every dog wants to do that; or is even capable of doing that; and that’s ok. But in order to maintain safety in our facility; and to preserve the health & happiness of the dogs & people who come through it; we reserve the right to dismiss those dogs who haven’t earned the privilege. If you’d like to take your dog to a professional trainer to address the problem they’re being dismissed for; and then re-apply in 60 days; you’re free to do so. Even if you don’t re-apply; I still highly recommend you seek out some form of training. But unfortunately we do not, and never have, offered our own in-house training for our dogs. We try to be as upfront about that as possible- one of our mottos is that daycare is a space for trained dogs; not for training dogs. Still, I’m very sorry if your expectations led you to believe otherwise.”

Little passive-aggressive as far as a response goes; so this is def one that I reserve for a very specific type of dog owner- the type I’m talking about in my OP- (the ignorant & belligerent type).
 
@heartfire Perhaps it would be useful to write what you’ve written here into your written agreement with each client and have them initial each paragraph so they won’t have any confusion about what your services will and won’t provide.
 

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