theincrediblebaptistor
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I have a 12 week old Bernedoodle who is definitely a little bit of a Velcro dog. We’ve had him for 4 weeks and I work from home.
He hates the crate during the day but has usually been able to settle himself at night. The first night we had him he cried for about an hour. The second night 30 minutes. And since then he might whine for 5 or 10 minutes, but then he settles and better yet, stays that way all night, 1030pm until ~6.
Last night was awful. For context, he got his second round of vaccinations two days ago and yesterday started a three day dewormer course. I put him in the crate at 1030 like I always do and he cried. And howled. And cried. For two and a half hours. I came downstairs to take home out twice thinking maybe his stomach hurt and both times he just wanted to play tug on the leash in the backyard.
Finally after two and a half hours, I caved (my wife made me) and came downstairs. I tried to soothe him from outside the crate to no avail. I took him out of the crate to see if I could get him to settle and it took a while but he fell asleep on the floor. And I spent the night in and out of sleep on the couch next to him.
I know the rule of thumb is to stay strong and do whatever you can to keep him in the crate. How screwed am I? Am I up against another tantrum tonight and every night hereafter? What can I do? I feel awful that he was that upset last night. And I feel awful that I might’ve just messed up what was a pretty lucky situation.
He hates the crate during the day but has usually been able to settle himself at night. The first night we had him he cried for about an hour. The second night 30 minutes. And since then he might whine for 5 or 10 minutes, but then he settles and better yet, stays that way all night, 1030pm until ~6.
Last night was awful. For context, he got his second round of vaccinations two days ago and yesterday started a three day dewormer course. I put him in the crate at 1030 like I always do and he cried. And howled. And cried. For two and a half hours. I came downstairs to take home out twice thinking maybe his stomach hurt and both times he just wanted to play tug on the leash in the backyard.
Finally after two and a half hours, I caved (my wife made me) and came downstairs. I tried to soothe him from outside the crate to no avail. I took him out of the crate to see if I could get him to settle and it took a while but he fell asleep on the floor. And I spent the night in and out of sleep on the couch next to him.
I know the rule of thumb is to stay strong and do whatever you can to keep him in the crate. How screwed am I? Am I up against another tantrum tonight and every night hereafter? What can I do? I feel awful that he was that upset last night. And I feel awful that I might’ve just messed up what was a pretty lucky situation.