nrnowlinma
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Alright so this is a vent, which I take alot of you could actually connect with.
So I have two dogs. Z. (5F) and N. (7m M). Both are shelties and it are mother and son. They go well together although Z. does not play with him due to her past.
They are sweet to other dogs and do reach out to sniff at people. Z also lets herself get pet under her chin and if she knows you better on her head but N does not want to be pet by strangers.
This is pretty common for this breed and I do not care. If they really want to interact with him I give the people his favourite candy but I always leave the choice up to him.
I often get cr** for this....
My dogs should let themselves get pet by people. My dogs should just sit still and listen. They should not be allowed on the bed. They should not be allowed on the couch. They should not receive so many treats. I should not allow this.... or that....
I freaking hate it when people are starting to tell me what my dog is allowed to do and not. In my eyes if my dog does not want to be touched by a stranger, that is his right. I doubt people like it that I start just petting them on top of their head.
I often tell people to offer the hand and scratch under the chin. Z loves this and allows it from strangers but pulls back when they go immediately for the top of the head.
When a dog or wolf is threatening another member of its family they lean completely over that member. It's why dogs lower themself to the ground when another dog leans over them.
So in my vision my dog is allowed not to want this.
At the end of the day my dog has to come home with me. I like my dog on the bed to cuddle with them. I like their weight against my legs and side on the couch. I like sitting on the ground and wrestling with my dogs and let them jump all over me.
I train my dogs to be nice in society. Both my dogs are angels to other dogs and they do not growl or bite towards people, not even when they are in the appartement. My dogs can run off leash and stay with me. They can go to crowded places and just sit on my foot while just behaving. They do not jump towards other dogs to meet them.
But again, in the end I go home with them. Not my neighbour, not the person across the street.... and I do not want a dog that just lays in the basket waiting for their walk and food. I like that they play with their toys and bones. That my pup steals our socks. Or my bf his shoes. That I can play as crazy with N by acting as the beanstalk giant chasing him around the house.
Ok, vent done [sup]^[/sup]
Thank you for listening.
So I have two dogs. Z. (5F) and N. (7m M). Both are shelties and it are mother and son. They go well together although Z. does not play with him due to her past.
They are sweet to other dogs and do reach out to sniff at people. Z also lets herself get pet under her chin and if she knows you better on her head but N does not want to be pet by strangers.
This is pretty common for this breed and I do not care. If they really want to interact with him I give the people his favourite candy but I always leave the choice up to him.
I often get cr** for this....
My dogs should let themselves get pet by people. My dogs should just sit still and listen. They should not be allowed on the bed. They should not be allowed on the couch. They should not receive so many treats. I should not allow this.... or that....
I freaking hate it when people are starting to tell me what my dog is allowed to do and not. In my eyes if my dog does not want to be touched by a stranger, that is his right. I doubt people like it that I start just petting them on top of their head.
I often tell people to offer the hand and scratch under the chin. Z loves this and allows it from strangers but pulls back when they go immediately for the top of the head.
When a dog or wolf is threatening another member of its family they lean completely over that member. It's why dogs lower themself to the ground when another dog leans over them.
So in my vision my dog is allowed not to want this.
At the end of the day my dog has to come home with me. I like my dog on the bed to cuddle with them. I like their weight against my legs and side on the couch. I like sitting on the ground and wrestling with my dogs and let them jump all over me.
I train my dogs to be nice in society. Both my dogs are angels to other dogs and they do not growl or bite towards people, not even when they are in the appartement. My dogs can run off leash and stay with me. They can go to crowded places and just sit on my foot while just behaving. They do not jump towards other dogs to meet them.
But again, in the end I go home with them. Not my neighbour, not the person across the street.... and I do not want a dog that just lays in the basket waiting for their walk and food. I like that they play with their toys and bones. That my pup steals our socks. Or my bf his shoes. That I can play as crazy with N by acting as the beanstalk giant chasing him around the house.
Ok, vent done [sup]^[/sup]
Thank you for listening.