@unknown404 Your dog has c-ptsd. The shaking is a trauma release and it’s totally normal so let her shake. Clearly something happened where a male abused her.
Are you the one feeding her? That will help her trust you more. But you absolutely need to give her space. Don’t touch or approach her, let her come to you.
Put yourself in her shoes - if a man beat the shit out of you how would you feel around men? You’d be terrified, and that feeling doesn’t go away in 6 months. This is just an example since you don’t know what happened.
I would also work on your breathing. If you do things like box breathing you can calm your own nervous system and in turn calm her down just by being in the same room as her while doing it. It will reassure her.
Are you the one feeding her? That will help her trust you more. But you absolutely need to give her space. Don’t touch or approach her, let her come to you.
Put yourself in her shoes - if a man beat the shit out of you how would you feel around men? You’d be terrified, and that feeling doesn’t go away in 6 months. This is just an example since you don’t know what happened.
I would also work on your breathing. If you do things like box breathing you can calm your own nervous system and in turn calm her down just by being in the same room as her while doing it. It will reassure her.