@aegistoronto I’ve been learning that a lot of people (myself included earlier) don’t understand the mindset of an animal. They don’t see or understand things like we do. On every aspect. When my dog and I go running on the trails at the park, I stay on the trail which is winding and far from straight while she just goes (mostly) straight through every piece of grass, mud, or whatever. She doesn’t see a “path” she seems the ground. That’s it. So to expect your dog to stay on the dirt path right off the bat is crazy. She understands sidewalks. But to her, earth is earth.
And I agree with the collar stigma. While I wouldn’t use an ecollar on my dog, dud to her past abuse and I don’t feel she needs that intense of reinforcement, I’m slowly learning that some of things I have since deemed “immoral” is actually mentally beneficial to the animal. They’ll tell or show you if they’re hurt, and from I’ve been learning from trainers and other dog owners is no product sold over the counter and suggested by trainers is made to be abusive. How you use it and train the dog with it, is how it’s abusive. Just like any parent to their child, if you do it right they’ll be fine. If you just do what you think is right with no understanding or training, you’re gonna just fuck up your dog
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In the end, do what you need to do to keep your dog happy and you at peace. My dog gets super bad anxiety and when she’s going through something it can stress me out cuz I’m helpless to understand some things. We can be all alone in a yard and she’ll just flinch and stare at nothing. What do I do? Well I need to learn what and what is causing it and how I can show her it’s ok or that she’s safe. And through that we both live happier lives. Good luck friend!!