@jesusismybestfriend314 37th floor here and first timers too! Our girl is 11 weeks today. I built her a 32x32 box using 4 2x4, outdoor planter liner, soil and pea gravel. Total cost was around $30. Will likely have to change out the soil and gravel once a year, but won't necessarily need it as much once she's fully vaccinated. I've rinsed it once as we haven't had a good rain storm. She took to it right away and still pees on grass/other surfaces when outdoors in safe environments. I would suggest taking your pup outdoors on the balcony many times, even when not having to potty, to get used to the height and sounds. Our girl has started to enjoy watching the trains go by.
One thing that we did that I highly recommend is we wrote our adjacent neighbours a letter from our girl with a photo explaining how she didn't love her crate and we were sorry about any loud noises they would hear. We also added our cell numbers so that they can text us if it's too loud to try and avoid getting a noise complaint. This ended up being a great way to meet our neighbours (we're also somewhat new to our building) as they came over to meet our girl and even brought her toys! Your neighbours will definitely appreciate such a small gesture and it'll help you feel more at ease when they're howling in their crate.
Also baby gates, baby gates, baby gates or any other way to block! The more blocked off areas you have the better it will be for your sanity. We are slowly starting to open up other areas as she gets better with her bladder, but we made the initial mistake of allowing our girl free reign of the apartment and she decided to mark her territory basically anywhere and everywhere we couldn't see her. Now that she only has access to half the apartment, she goes towards the door when she needs to go. Also get rid of your carpets unless you're okay with having to constantly clean them. Much easier to clean the floor multiple times than the carpet they enjoy chewing and peeing on.
Hope this helps and congratulations! It'll be peaks and valleys, but ultimately the love you'll have for him/her will negate the valleys
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