crystalplant
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It's been around three months on Fluoxetine, and holy hell the difference is insane. Our dog is a rescue with a traumatic past, and has anxiety-based reactivity towards strangers - especially towards tall men. We've already noticed that she's more attentive, less barky, and overall way less reactive. And this improvement is alongside lots of behavior modification work. But yesterday she blew my mind.
We went to a friend's Thanksgiving. Thinking it'd be a small gathering, we decided to take our dog because she's gotten good at handling small groups. It turned out to be like 15 people crowded in a small apartment, with lots of tall men.
I kid you not, she did not react to a single person.
Some of this was just handling the situation well so I'm proud of my partner and I too cus we've also come a long way. My partner and I were on high alert making and stayed close to her the whole time making sure none of her trigger warners was showing. The few times she did look nervous or uncomfortable - we would step in and take her to a less crowded space, and comfort her with treats and pets. There was also another dog there which I think really helped the situation as a distraction and also she tends to trust people more if they already have the seal of approval from another dog. She also was constantly checking in with us through the night - if a person was scary, she would look at me, I would reassure her with a treat, and then she'd either relax and say hi to the person or come hang out with me. It was insanely cool to see her processing everything in her head. It's like the Fluoxetine had cleared up space in her head that was being used to be afraid and now applied it to our behavior modification work.
For any fear-based reactivity, I highly recommend seeing a behaviorist and trying medication, because the combo has been incredible.
We went to a friend's Thanksgiving. Thinking it'd be a small gathering, we decided to take our dog because she's gotten good at handling small groups. It turned out to be like 15 people crowded in a small apartment, with lots of tall men.
I kid you not, she did not react to a single person.
Some of this was just handling the situation well so I'm proud of my partner and I too cus we've also come a long way. My partner and I were on high alert making and stayed close to her the whole time making sure none of her trigger warners was showing. The few times she did look nervous or uncomfortable - we would step in and take her to a less crowded space, and comfort her with treats and pets. There was also another dog there which I think really helped the situation as a distraction and also she tends to trust people more if they already have the seal of approval from another dog. She also was constantly checking in with us through the night - if a person was scary, she would look at me, I would reassure her with a treat, and then she'd either relax and say hi to the person or come hang out with me. It was insanely cool to see her processing everything in her head. It's like the Fluoxetine had cleared up space in her head that was being used to be afraid and now applied it to our behavior modification work.
For any fear-based reactivity, I highly recommend seeing a behaviorist and trying medication, because the combo has been incredible.