@joy9 I have a theory that due to inbreeding and modern life and other factors, dogs are becoming prone to mental illness, just like people. We have no way of studying dog "psychiatry", we can't ask them how they are feeling emotionally and mentally, and it would cost far, far too much money to run MRIs and other scans of their brains to look for the same kind of inconsistencies that humans with mental illness have.
My mom's dog had severe dementia at age 16, there's no other way to describe it. He regressed behaviorally, didn't recognize my mother who had had him since 10 weeks, would wander around the house and cry constantly, once he refused to sleep until he literally fell down exhausted, still crying. Physically he was healthy, he ate, he pooped, when he was more "himself" he could even still get the zoomies around the backyard. But my mom made the decision to put him down because his mental state was only getting worse and his quality of life was suffering.
I do believe you did everything you could. I know that there is a movement for responsible breeding in the US, more genetic testing for dogs, and more research into veterinary medicine and dog behavior. I hope that in the future situations like yours can be treated or prevented entirely. You deserved better and please, give yourself some love and forgiveness.
My mom's dog had severe dementia at age 16, there's no other way to describe it. He regressed behaviorally, didn't recognize my mother who had had him since 10 weeks, would wander around the house and cry constantly, once he refused to sleep until he literally fell down exhausted, still crying. Physically he was healthy, he ate, he pooped, when he was more "himself" he could even still get the zoomies around the backyard. But my mom made the decision to put him down because his mental state was only getting worse and his quality of life was suffering.
I do believe you did everything you could. I know that there is a movement for responsible breeding in the US, more genetic testing for dogs, and more research into veterinary medicine and dog behavior. I hope that in the future situations like yours can be treated or prevented entirely. You deserved better and please, give yourself some love and forgiveness.