lovelife34
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Hey guys! I have a 2 year old male Maltese who suffers from separation anxiety. He also is a recovering frustrated greeter. We’ve been using leash pressure & mostly balanced training for the majority of his training, but follow a purely R+ subthreshold method for his separation anxiety. He is crate trained to sleep in his crate at night for about 8 hours every night, and we’re working on leaving him alone in his crate during the day (he’s gotten up to 4-5 hours in the afternoons after being properly exercised of course). I’d say he tolerates the crate but definitely don’t love it as much as I’d like him to. He doesn’t really go in it during the day, but sleeps belly up in his crate at night/during the day.
Since we moved, I’ve noticed that he started exhibiting these behavior where he would wake up and start doing 1-2 rounds of pacing in his crate, then lie down for a few minutes, then repeat. I took it as a sign that he reached threshold and wanted to be let out so I did let him out when I see him doing that, but he started doing it more. Until one day he did that at 5:30am and I tried to yell “no” through the camera, and it sent him to sleep for another 2:30 hours. This led me to think, could it be that this pacing/pawing behavior is him being pushy and wanting to get out instead of actual anxiety? I tried doing it during the day scenario and it worked too, sending him to lie on his side and fall asleep. I’m really confused because the subthreshold method suggests I let him out immediately as he shows the first sign of anxiety and shouldn’t scare him more when he’s already anxious, but somehow he seems to benefit from some clear correction/boundary setting?
Since we moved, I’ve noticed that he started exhibiting these behavior where he would wake up and start doing 1-2 rounds of pacing in his crate, then lie down for a few minutes, then repeat. I took it as a sign that he reached threshold and wanted to be let out so I did let him out when I see him doing that, but he started doing it more. Until one day he did that at 5:30am and I tried to yell “no” through the camera, and it sent him to sleep for another 2:30 hours. This led me to think, could it be that this pacing/pawing behavior is him being pushy and wanting to get out instead of actual anxiety? I tried doing it during the day scenario and it worked too, sending him to lie on his side and fall asleep. I’m really confused because the subthreshold method suggests I let him out immediately as he shows the first sign of anxiety and shouldn’t scare him more when he’s already anxious, but somehow he seems to benefit from some clear correction/boundary setting?