Today I had to give back the 2 yr old pit mix I adopted about two months ago with my partner. We tried everything in our power to keep him as he was amazing with us. There rest of the world, however, terrified him; people, dogs, cars, statues, moving objects. We ended up talking to a hyperqualified trainer, even above our budget, to make light on the situation, him being our first dog and us being unexperienced.
This trainer told us exactly what we should do to rehabilitate him, but that would be 1. economically impossible to afford (antistress food, natural supplements, meidcation) 2. time wise impossible to manage with us being young students (4h walks for decompression per day, with 0 triggers, meaning 6h driving included) 3. impossible in our current living situation (he would need countryside home with a garden, we're in an apartment).
so for both our and his sake, we took him back, knowing this shelter does rehab dogs with professionals.
The extra damage on top of this, is the shelter's reaction. They blamed us for not keeping him, because he's "impossible to rehome". implied we're irresponsible, uncaring. stated we're overreacting. this dog will snap at every person he meets on the street, teeth and all. growl at me for being close to him. I love him, incredibly, but i don't have the skills or the means to keep him.
Please tell me they're wrong, they're guilt tripping me, thinking im hiding 150k in my bank account to spend on him and a house he'd be comfy at.
I honestly cant deal with the guilt on top of all of this. i keep telling myself, at the shelter he wont have to walk on any streets, or meet anyone. he will have a field just for him for x amount of time per day. a trainer to help. still better than living with me, right?
UPDATE: we contacted the division of the shelter that deals with reactive dogs and they are now aware of his issues. He will begin rehabilitation training when it is fit.
Thanks everyone for the kind words.
This trainer told us exactly what we should do to rehabilitate him, but that would be 1. economically impossible to afford (antistress food, natural supplements, meidcation) 2. time wise impossible to manage with us being young students (4h walks for decompression per day, with 0 triggers, meaning 6h driving included) 3. impossible in our current living situation (he would need countryside home with a garden, we're in an apartment).
so for both our and his sake, we took him back, knowing this shelter does rehab dogs with professionals.
The extra damage on top of this, is the shelter's reaction. They blamed us for not keeping him, because he's "impossible to rehome". implied we're irresponsible, uncaring. stated we're overreacting. this dog will snap at every person he meets on the street, teeth and all. growl at me for being close to him. I love him, incredibly, but i don't have the skills or the means to keep him.
Please tell me they're wrong, they're guilt tripping me, thinking im hiding 150k in my bank account to spend on him and a house he'd be comfy at.
I honestly cant deal with the guilt on top of all of this. i keep telling myself, at the shelter he wont have to walk on any streets, or meet anyone. he will have a field just for him for x amount of time per day. a trainer to help. still better than living with me, right?
UPDATE: we contacted the division of the shelter that deals with reactive dogs and they are now aware of his issues. He will begin rehabilitation training when it is fit.
Thanks everyone for the kind words.