michael3817
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ETA: I’m not going to put her down. I should have used my words better, I’m just overwhelmed and stressed. Thanks for all of your feedback but the main thing is I don’t really want to keep her. I was never going to and do not have the capacity. I do love her but this isn’t feasible. I’ve found some FB groups that do private re homing and will try those (and vet all potential owners).
About 8 months ago someone on my local FB page asked if someone could take their dog in for a week as they had moved into a flat, the landlord was threatening eviction, and a new owner they’d found couldn’t take her for about a week. Well, it’s been 8 months and she’s still with me. Coco is a 2 year old Doberman/staff cross and is literally the sweetest, snuggliest dog at home but once she’s out of the house she becomes a strong snarling beast whenever a dog/cat/horse/bird comes into the picture. I’m at my wits end. I’ve tried the local dog’s trust to rehome her but they say they can’t help me because she’s too reactive. Any other rescue I’ve tried to get support from can’t help either. I have 3 other small dogs in my house and she gets along well with them but it’s too much. In the time we’ve had her we’ve insured her, had her spayed, changed her microchip info and taken her to the vet for regular checkups and vaccinations. I do love the sweet side of her but she’s such a menace outside. I pay 3x weekly (sometimes more) to take her to private enclosed dog parks as it’s the only way I can handle her. My husband can take her on walks as she’s super ball focused but I don’t feel comfortable (and he’s useless - another story for another day).
What can I do? She’s technically mine but I was only doing someone a favour. I’m almost at the point where I’m thinking of putting her down because this situation is consuming me. I also have 4 kids so overwhelmed is an understatement. I’m in the UK if that makes any difference.
About 8 months ago someone on my local FB page asked if someone could take their dog in for a week as they had moved into a flat, the landlord was threatening eviction, and a new owner they’d found couldn’t take her for about a week. Well, it’s been 8 months and she’s still with me. Coco is a 2 year old Doberman/staff cross and is literally the sweetest, snuggliest dog at home but once she’s out of the house she becomes a strong snarling beast whenever a dog/cat/horse/bird comes into the picture. I’m at my wits end. I’ve tried the local dog’s trust to rehome her but they say they can’t help me because she’s too reactive. Any other rescue I’ve tried to get support from can’t help either. I have 3 other small dogs in my house and she gets along well with them but it’s too much. In the time we’ve had her we’ve insured her, had her spayed, changed her microchip info and taken her to the vet for regular checkups and vaccinations. I do love the sweet side of her but she’s such a menace outside. I pay 3x weekly (sometimes more) to take her to private enclosed dog parks as it’s the only way I can handle her. My husband can take her on walks as she’s super ball focused but I don’t feel comfortable (and he’s useless - another story for another day).
What can I do? She’s technically mine but I was only doing someone a favour. I’m almost at the point where I’m thinking of putting her down because this situation is consuming me. I also have 4 kids so overwhelmed is an understatement. I’m in the UK if that makes any difference.