Context:
I have a 13 week old, 20 lb GSD/Husky puppy whom I love dearly. Since I know he’s going to be 60 lb or so grown up (half my bodyweight,) I’ve spent literally thousands of dollars and countless hours socializing, training, and taking him around the city since he was 8 weeks old. We do tricks before every meal, crate time, on walks, at unfamiliar places, and do 10 mins of settling each day. We practice impulse control, leash control, eye contact, enrichment, positive reinforcement, grooming stimuli— he lunges on leash sometimes because he’s so excited about getting attention from strangers and sulks when he doesn’t get pet (working on this one with lots of redirecting,) but that’s it. He’s a dream of a puppy. Even our trainers (plural!) have remarked on how bright and motivated he is. Etc.
Today I finally decided he was old enough for proper daycare. Previously he’d only been to puppy playdates 1-3 hrs long. I left him at a 5-star daycare with “personal attention” to be evaluated by the owner, picked him up 7-8 hrs later after checking in at lunch, and the little guy fell asleep the moment he gets home. Amazing.
But 1 hr later, I get a call from the owner asking “if we can talk.” He then proceeds to give me this list:
At the moment I was so shocked that I couldn’t even respond. That’s not my puppy. I would never use any of those methods but I couldn’t even get a word in. And the more I’’m thinking about it now, the more pissed off I am that this guy lectured me for half an hour based off of my puppy’s first-time daycare experience. He does have lots of experience (10 yrs of dog ownership.)
Am I overreacting? Should I switch daycares or will this get better? What are issues I should address in my puppy?
I have a 13 week old, 20 lb GSD/Husky puppy whom I love dearly. Since I know he’s going to be 60 lb or so grown up (half my bodyweight,) I’ve spent literally thousands of dollars and countless hours socializing, training, and taking him around the city since he was 8 weeks old. We do tricks before every meal, crate time, on walks, at unfamiliar places, and do 10 mins of settling each day. We practice impulse control, leash control, eye contact, enrichment, positive reinforcement, grooming stimuli— he lunges on leash sometimes because he’s so excited about getting attention from strangers and sulks when he doesn’t get pet (working on this one with lots of redirecting,) but that’s it. He’s a dream of a puppy. Even our trainers (plural!) have remarked on how bright and motivated he is. Etc.
Today I finally decided he was old enough for proper daycare. Previously he’d only been to puppy playdates 1-3 hrs long. I left him at a 5-star daycare with “personal attention” to be evaluated by the owner, picked him up 7-8 hrs later after checking in at lunch, and the little guy fell asleep the moment he gets home. Amazing.
But 1 hr later, I get a call from the owner asking “if we can talk.” He then proceeds to give me this list:
- No separation anxiety
- Started playing right away
- Wrestler play style
- Does not respond to any commands nor his own name
- Shys away when you try to touch/pet him
- Does not have a collar
- No gate anxiety/ aggression. No interest in resources
- Curious but can be distant at times
- Average energy level
At the moment I was so shocked that I couldn’t even respond. That’s not my puppy. I would never use any of those methods but I couldn’t even get a word in. And the more I’’m thinking about it now, the more pissed off I am that this guy lectured me for half an hour based off of my puppy’s first-time daycare experience. He does have lots of experience (10 yrs of dog ownership.)
Am I overreacting? Should I switch daycares or will this get better? What are issues I should address in my puppy?