candlemakerpls
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@san422 It sounds like you, the non-dog person was in charge of the whole process and even most of the care while the rest of the family has the extensive dog experience. Its like putting the table cleaner in charge of the menu and kitchen. You had high expectations that the rest of the family was going to be involved but kids will be kids and unfortunately the WFH person tends to get stuck being "well you are home already" mind you with deadlines, meetings, etc its not all that easy to also tend to a puppy. I can't even imagine living in a 2 BR apt with no yard while having a dog (while I know many people do make it work and is possible). As for kids that is a crap shoot. You can have the kid that wants a dog with a passion and will take the brunt of responsibility for it, all the way to "sure i love dogs I want one" , then as in your case goes in their room and plays video games all weekend while you are trying to get a bit of a puppy break. To be frank you did the right thing. I'm glad that you were quick to recognize as early as possible that it wasn't going to work.