@brokenjoker That’s tough! I had a labrador that was like that hahaah, back then I didn’t know half of what I know now, but one thing that I still have trouble with is to get my mind off of things and restart. Even now, Aurora gets up super rambunctious because yaaay, new day! And she barks and runs in front of me, I’m not a morning person, and she learned not to wake me up, but I’m still cranky. I have to literally step out (be it in the bathroom or balcony hahaha) and take a few deep breaths and try to tone out the noise. No one will die if I take 5 minutes without looking. Then I try to “recenter” myself and get back with a smile and even if I have to tell her to tone down I try to do so in a calm voice, but serious (not mad) face. Sometimes I catch myself angry at the world and honestly it’s just because I haven’t taken a deep breath and looked at the sky or something, and it’s hard when you’ve had a puppy barking non stop for 20 min, a dog peeing outside the puppy pad and another dog that has a physical injury trying to jump on your knees asking for food. But me being angry and distracted only makes them worse, so once I get back to normal they are much more willing to obey me and follow my cues.
Also, something that helped me to get Aurora to actually use her chew toys was getting those wet food varieties of her own kibble, spread something on the chew toys and put it in the freezer. She didn’t stay there licking them for long, but I did this a few times and it was enough for her to pick them up on her own. But I only did it with the kong chew ones, those are the crazy indestructible ones that last more than a week (so far she was only able to make a scratch in a normal kong for puppies, but the ones I use are green and blue and only for chewing and not for filling). And sniff mats, loooots of it. Dog going crazy? Sniff mat, still crazy? A little bit more? Still crazy, wait 30 min, no sleep? More! And we keep at it hahaah.