So about 3-4 months back my boyfriend and I had got our first puppy together and she moved across the country with us. After getting her trained we got another puppy to keep her company. My boyfriend knew before we got our first dog that I have loved dogs my whole life. My dad and I both have always shared a love for dogs. So when getting our first puppy it was like all my dreams came true. Before we got her though and when i was buying things for her that’s when some problems started. He was saying I’m too obsessed when I should be focusing on other things, that I talked about her too much etc. we also had sat down and talked about what our ideas were for training. He said he was raised by hitting dogs when they were bad or pooped and peed in the house, leaving them in their crates for 8 hours or even a little more sometimes. I told him that under no circumstances will he ever hit our dogs. That they don’t understand why you’re doing that to them and that i will not leave them in crates for that long either. That’s when things started to get worse. He had spanked our first puppy for pottying in the house and scared her bad. I lost my mind on him and made him stop and swear to never do that again especially since she already has anxiety. So again he would start to say I’m too obsessed, i let our dogs control my life, i shouldn’t have to wake up in the morning to let them go potty that they need to wait, to not talk about them anymore and so on and so forth. Ever since we got our dogs our relationship has went way downhill because i take my training seriously with them and i love them so much. We fight almost everyday now over the dogs. Everyone else thinks they’re super well behaved and he disagrees. He thinks they need to be spanked more. But he knows I won’t let that happen. I never thought I’d be with someone who would hate such a major part of who I am. I’ve always loved dogs and that will never change. I really love my boyfriend, we’ve been together awhile & we’re about to close on a house together in a few weeks. Idk if im being dramatic and i really am too obsessed or if i should be rethinking my relationship?