dlmoodyfan
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My husband and I are both 30 and starting to think of having kids in the next few years. However we have a very reactive 8 y.o. Spaniel/Chow/super mutt. She’s touch sensitive and resource guarding with a low bite threshold. She’s so good 95% of the time and has made huge strides back from the brink of BE but I’ll never be able to trust her around kids. Even if I wanted to rehome her (which I don’t), no one would take her. I hate the idea of sequestering her to one room or outside because she’d hate it and I feel like we’d be pushing her aside.
We’re not 100% sure if we want kids and if we decide we do, we’re not in a hurry to have them. Would maybe have one in the next 2 years. But the reality is my dog is 28 lbs and her most recent bloodwork was perfect. She could easily live another 8 years. Then I’m 38 having my first kid. Not like that’s totally crazy but that’s certainly not the timing I’d prefer. It seems crazy to potentially miss or significantly delay my childbearing decisions based on a dog but on the other hand I made a commitment to her and I love her. It’s quite painful.
Has anyone else run into this?
We’re not 100% sure if we want kids and if we decide we do, we’re not in a hurry to have them. Would maybe have one in the next 2 years. But the reality is my dog is 28 lbs and her most recent bloodwork was perfect. She could easily live another 8 years. Then I’m 38 having my first kid. Not like that’s totally crazy but that’s certainly not the timing I’d prefer. It seems crazy to potentially miss or significantly delay my childbearing decisions based on a dog but on the other hand I made a commitment to her and I love her. It’s quite painful.
Has anyone else run into this?