I’ve been searching for a particular breed that’s been harder than I anticipated to find, and I found one breeder in my area that I’ve been interested in working with. It took me a while to figure out how to contact them but finally I connected in a breed group online. We chatted once, just me introducing myself mostly and explaining why I was interested in the breed. They said their waitlist was quite long and that was the end of the conversation.
They saw me inquire about another breeder in the group and messaged me asking if I was no longer interested in working with them and why. I said not at all, I had just started talking to breeders and thought their waitlist was full. Someone had suggested I look into the other breeder so I was just checking them out. They responded by saying there was a chance they could have a puppy for me in about a month, and I said thank you. A few days later I sent a message saying I realized we never really talked about what I was looking for in a puppy, and wrote a little about the temperament, gender, and coat color, but emphasized temperament over color, and they never responded to me. I messaged a few days later with a question I had and again no answer, but I can see they have read my messages.
Did I screw up by looking at another breeder? I had never filled out a questionnaire or application or really even talked about what we were looking for temperament wise, so I didn’t think I was on a particular list, especially since they said the wait would probably be really long. Should I try to reach out again and smooth things over or just move on? The breeder was very friendly and responsive before I checked out the other breeder. I’d like to work with this breeder and believe they have a great program with wonderful dogs… I wasn’t trying to offend, just trying to do my due diligence making sure I was picking the right person.
Thanks.
They saw me inquire about another breeder in the group and messaged me asking if I was no longer interested in working with them and why. I said not at all, I had just started talking to breeders and thought their waitlist was full. Someone had suggested I look into the other breeder so I was just checking them out. They responded by saying there was a chance they could have a puppy for me in about a month, and I said thank you. A few days later I sent a message saying I realized we never really talked about what I was looking for in a puppy, and wrote a little about the temperament, gender, and coat color, but emphasized temperament over color, and they never responded to me. I messaged a few days later with a question I had and again no answer, but I can see they have read my messages.
Did I screw up by looking at another breeder? I had never filled out a questionnaire or application or really even talked about what we were looking for temperament wise, so I didn’t think I was on a particular list, especially since they said the wait would probably be really long. Should I try to reach out again and smooth things over or just move on? The breeder was very friendly and responsive before I checked out the other breeder. I’d like to work with this breeder and believe they have a great program with wonderful dogs… I wasn’t trying to offend, just trying to do my due diligence making sure I was picking the right person.
Thanks.