hewhoshallnotbenamed
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My wife adopted a mini labradoodle puppy a year ago. I’ve never had a dog that lives indoors so potty training and obedience school are all new to me. Growing up we had a sweet black lab for 15 years that lived outside in a doghouse and did whatever he wanted in our backyard.
It has been difficult to avoid getting upset at the new dog for destroying everything in the house, already several hundred $ in damage. We also have two small boys (1.5 & 3 yrs) which require lots of care and attention so I feel the dog gets a bad deal with exhausted parents. We’ve taken him to 2 rounds of obedience school with little improvement.
I’m struggling to connect with the dog and daydream about re-homing but my wife is 100% invested. The dog is afraid of me even though I’ve never harmed him, just lots of NOs and occasional putting him outside. My wife rarely disciplines and leaves most of it to me and I don’t like being bad cop.
I want to connect and get along with our dog but am really struggling. Any advice would be appreciated.
It has been difficult to avoid getting upset at the new dog for destroying everything in the house, already several hundred $ in damage. We also have two small boys (1.5 & 3 yrs) which require lots of care and attention so I feel the dog gets a bad deal with exhausted parents. We’ve taken him to 2 rounds of obedience school with little improvement.
I’m struggling to connect with the dog and daydream about re-homing but my wife is 100% invested. The dog is afraid of me even though I’ve never harmed him, just lots of NOs and occasional putting him outside. My wife rarely disciplines and leaves most of it to me and I don’t like being bad cop.
I want to connect and get along with our dog but am really struggling. Any advice would be appreciated.