canuckgramz
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I have 2 medium-large-ish sized dogs, and life issues and not being in the best of mental state have made it difficult to cope, hence why I let things slide. I’m embarrassed. I’ve really f*d up, I know that, so please be nice. I also have no support system, no access to support, so I don’t know what to do or where to turn.
This is also long and all over the place, so for that I’m sorry.
Inside the house, they are good as gold, but outside, I’m scared what they’ll do. They will listen to recalls, commands inside , but outside is just a different story. They are different dogs.
Usually now, I just leash them for 5 minutes to cross a road and let them into some fields for a long run, because the pulling has just become too much mentally, physically. I also shamefully have quickly given up, because I know the pulling just doesn’t stop, no matter how hard I have tried before.
Last night I realised the severity of it when I tried to walk them, and I just could not control them. It became so dangerous. A 15 minute journey took and hour or so. I’m scared to take them out around people or cars at this point to try again. I don’t want them or anyone getting hurt.
Let’s call them D1 and D2.
Last night, D2 pulled non stop, lunged at passing cars, cried and struggled like a maniac when I stopped in an attempt to try and stop them from pulling. D2 was constantly biting D1s leash. I barely had the strength to contain D2, let alone both of them. I was almost pulled off my feet repeatedly. It just would not stop. My hands are completely swollen and burning red as a result, and find it hard to use them properly.
D1 got loose and ran into the road twice, refusing recall the first time. D1 used to be so well behaved, and I walked D1 on the leash fine before I had D2. D1 also walked fine with my previous dog who passed. That dog would walk by my side with or without a leash.
It seems D1 has picks up on D2s behaviour, and it has now become a battle between them to see who can pull the hardest.
I just really don’t know what to do here. I need help.
This is also long and all over the place, so for that I’m sorry.
Inside the house, they are good as gold, but outside, I’m scared what they’ll do. They will listen to recalls, commands inside , but outside is just a different story. They are different dogs.
Usually now, I just leash them for 5 minutes to cross a road and let them into some fields for a long run, because the pulling has just become too much mentally, physically. I also shamefully have quickly given up, because I know the pulling just doesn’t stop, no matter how hard I have tried before.
Last night I realised the severity of it when I tried to walk them, and I just could not control them. It became so dangerous. A 15 minute journey took and hour or so. I’m scared to take them out around people or cars at this point to try again. I don’t want them or anyone getting hurt.
Let’s call them D1 and D2.
Last night, D2 pulled non stop, lunged at passing cars, cried and struggled like a maniac when I stopped in an attempt to try and stop them from pulling. D2 was constantly biting D1s leash. I barely had the strength to contain D2, let alone both of them. I was almost pulled off my feet repeatedly. It just would not stop. My hands are completely swollen and burning red as a result, and find it hard to use them properly.
D1 got loose and ran into the road twice, refusing recall the first time. D1 used to be so well behaved, and I walked D1 on the leash fine before I had D2. D1 also walked fine with my previous dog who passed. That dog would walk by my side with or without a leash.
It seems D1 has picks up on D2s behaviour, and it has now become a battle between them to see who can pull the hardest.
I just really don’t know what to do here. I need help.