@louy51 Definitely avoid Tollers until you’ve gained some experience. I also have known about them for a long time, but haven’t been ready for one until now.
I’ve gone from police bred GSDs growing up, to a Lab, Golden Retriever and a Chihuahua who is essentially a mini Malinois. A Toller is my next dog after tonnes of research, talking to owners and meeting them, and I know for sure I’m only just there in terms of experience in regard to training and management! I knew I wanted something that was similar to my Golden, but more ‘portable’ (she’s not a big girl, small end of the standard, but is just slightly too much for me to easily lift / carry about when adventuring), more energetic, a bigger challenge to train, more aloof to strangers, more independent (my Golden *has* to be leaning on you and demanding pets if you’re in the same room as her) and with enough drive to happily try out, and potentially regularly participate in, a couple of sports, or go on runs / long hikes with me. I narrowed it down to MAS (just too small for my personal preference, I prefer medium dogs) and Tollers as my ’match essentially everything I am looking for’ final two. I’ll be hopefully getting a smaller female Toller if all works out, but may end up with a small male, or slightly bigger female
The breed isn’t typically one for cuddles, preferring to have personal space over being close to owners (with exceptions, but rare), and is described as more cat-like. They can be aloof and skittish, and typically experience a fear period that is stressful for an experienced owner, let alone a non-experienced owner. They are more Border / Aussie over Retriever so aren’t great for first-time owners or owners with little experience. Training them isn’t as easy as you would think - they are extremely smart, and you have to earn their respect in order to work best with them.
They like to scream (it is piercing and incessant - usually when they get excited, which isn’t hard to trigger), and are also just quite noisy in general. If a Roughie is too barky for you, do *not* get a Toller.
While only being a pet is possible in the breed, they still need plenty of exercise and mental stimulation. Most Toller owners are either extremely active, or have some sort of job / sport their dog participates in.
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Lab would suit you best. Genuinely the
perfect first dog - adaptable, biddable / trainable, ‘easy’. They are food motivated (therefore very easy to train and correct behaviours) and fun. Generally friendly (become friendly-neutral when socialised correctly). Both down to sleep, or down to go out. Not too big, and not too small. They do shed, but not excessively. I regularly groomed mine to keep on top of it, and also took him to groomers every so often to help remove the tufts of shedding fur. The breed is goofy and will make you laugh.
A Spoo may also be an option, like others have said, but they are a challenge to keep up with grooming.
As others have also said, a Greyhound would be perfect other than recall. But you could always utilise a longline instead of fully taking them off the lead.
I’d also check out a shelter / rescue. You don’t have other pets or children, so can take home a majority of the dogs there (I would avoid the typical high energy breeds though - they are likely there because they’ve developed behavioural issues due to lack of correct management from previous owners and would be stressful for a newer owner to take on). The only concerns you would have is a level of unpredictability in regard to behaviour and health issues. Most of the dogs there already have the basics of training and should slot very easily into your life.
Ignore anyone who has suggested the high energy breeds they claim are perfect for you (Borders, Aussies, ACD…). If theirs is lazy, it’s a unicorn and more likely than not comes from poor diet, health issues, obesity, dodgy breeding, learned behaviours because there is nothing to do… Someone purposefully breeding these breeds against standard and to reduce their function to solely be a pet is highly questionable. Those 3 in particular thrive with a job and are prone to extreme reactivity and behavioural issues when not being correctly physically and mentally stimulated enough. The horror stories of Borders dangerously reactive to anything that moves, especially cars is crazy. Same with all the people buying ACD because it’s ‘Bluey’.