davidfirth
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Hey, awesome regulars of r/reactivedogs. I’ve been on this sub for over two years, and it’s always heartwarming to see the support y’all provide those of us with reactive puppers. It was this sub that made me realize that my beloved (now 3-yo) female ACD doesn’t necessarily have a screw loose; she’s reactive…I’ve learned a LOT lurking this sub and put a lot of it into practice. However, I felt like I needed some extra help and a few weeks ago, I hired a trainer. Then this week, my vet prescribed Paxil, so I’m waiting to see what results we get out of that. The trainer has helped us a lot (mostly in training me to be a better owner, lol), but I feel like I’m having a tough time coming up with training protocols on my own, and our next session is tomorrow, in public park (not a dog park). This will be our second session out in public.
What literally JUST occurred to me is that my ACD has really bad vehicle reactivity, but it’s kind of weird: she’s pretty much fine while driving, but she goes way over threshold once we’re parked. She acts super excited, vocalizing, wants out of the truck, just flips. (She also gets really upset when I leave her in the truck even if she can see me, like if I have to fuel up, full on crying/howling.) I’ve been trying to get her to calm down before we get out, but it’s tough, especially since she’s fine while I’m driving, but as soon as we stop, she’s red zoning herself. Like, where do I start calming protocols? Obviously this is going to set the tone somewhat for her for the training session, as she’s already going over threshold just getting out of the truck. Last week, she did much better than the trainer expected, but realizing this now, I feel like I’m setting her up to fail before we even get started. So do I just go early and wait it out until she calms down to get out of the truck? Get out and have some cool down time (although in a somewhat stressful place)?
Any tips or ideas y’all have to help me navigate this and work through it, I would be so grateful.
What literally JUST occurred to me is that my ACD has really bad vehicle reactivity, but it’s kind of weird: she’s pretty much fine while driving, but she goes way over threshold once we’re parked. She acts super excited, vocalizing, wants out of the truck, just flips. (She also gets really upset when I leave her in the truck even if she can see me, like if I have to fuel up, full on crying/howling.) I’ve been trying to get her to calm down before we get out, but it’s tough, especially since she’s fine while I’m driving, but as soon as we stop, she’s red zoning herself. Like, where do I start calming protocols? Obviously this is going to set the tone somewhat for her for the training session, as she’s already going over threshold just getting out of the truck. Last week, she did much better than the trainer expected, but realizing this now, I feel like I’m setting her up to fail before we even get started. So do I just go early and wait it out until she calms down to get out of the truck? Get out and have some cool down time (although in a somewhat stressful place)?
Any tips or ideas y’all have to help me navigate this and work through it, I would be so grateful.