@jenfer I think most of this is people going online and getting scared off by application forms or applying for a specific dog at the most popular rescue on google and then not following up. All the rescues are running at 1/2 or less capacity because of covid and only being able to have so many volunteers at a time while getting more emails and messages than ever before. Usually they can only upload a few or update their website less frequently than they would like and it doesn’t reflect the actual dogs they have.
Usually the best thing to do is look at the smaller rescues in your area or foster groups and fill out applications with as much detail as possible asking to be matched up with a dog. The biggest hassle for rescues is needing to try and get a home for a dog quickly so they can get another one in and it needs to happen as fast as possible but there’s never notice that you are getting the dog. If you reach out and actually communicate and then wait they can pre screen you and when a dog comes in that suits you they will match you up straight away.
Rescues Not adopting to homes without gardens or people that come over or people who are out is a myth. It’s based on the specific dogs needs and also making sure the person is actually ready for a dog. All rescue dogs need some time at least while they adjust where they will have supervision and not have strangers coming in and out. Puppies you buy from breeders need FAR more but they don’t emphasise that and won’t prepare you the same way a rescue will because they are motivated by profit.
The reason why they “demonize” people for buying puppies after being rejected is because these same puppies end up in the rescue when the unprepared pet owner who bought them can’t handle them anymore. Rescue dogs already have had a lot of moving around so they want to do their best to make sure the dog will not be cycling back again for the dogs sake.
No rescue would ask you to never leave a dog alone because that causes the dog to develop separation anxiety which is hugely detrimental to their quality of life. All good rescues recommend proactively building up time away from the dog even if you have nowhere to go so they won’t be scared when you do have to go somewhere or they have to go somewhere without you (like the vet).
All of the questions asked are things any prospective pet owner and ESPECIALLY puppy buyer should be considering BEFORE bringing a dog into their home. Getting a dog is a commitment for 12 years at least. Waiting weeks or months to find the right dog in the right rescue shouldn’t be a problem because you are choosing a commitment for over a decade to share your life and home with. Even when buying a puppy the same applies. You SHOULDNT buy a puppy that you can pick up the next day because that’s a huge red flag. A reputable breeder will have a waiting list and people will be waiting for the next litter which can take LONGER than adopting from a rescue. If you are spending close to 1000 or more on a puppy you should be prepared to talk with the breeder, meet the parents, see where they live, see the puppies with the mother, and THEN wait weeks for the pup to get old enough to safely leave their mother. Right now with the astronomical increase in puppy sales you can guarantee that any sale that skips these steps is either a puppy mill or a very questionable back yard breeder and should be raising red flags.