Feeling like a failure for misjudging my dog.. Spoiler, nothing terrible happened but I am definitely feeling less confident.
I had been having a ton of trouble doing CC with my dog, and because it was unstructured it actually seemed to make her anxiety around kids WORSE. She used to be totally fine with older kids - so at the advice of a trainer we're starting there. She has no history of fear aggression and two trainers have said she'd not a "bite risk" but of course ANY dog can bite when afraid.
This week I've finally started allowing older kids (7+ years) ask my dog to do a trick and feed her treats out of their palms. We did this with five different kids this past week and she was GREAT. She's not a stranger loving dog so she acted how she'd typically act around any stranger with them. Responded to commands and confidently took treats - maybe a LITTLE bit of nervous excitement but I may be reading into it. I've been so excited that the first week of training was so successful!
For background, when we moved in Feb my dog developed some type of anxiety about strangers on our porch or near our apartment. We actually just recently had our adult neighbors give her treats for the first time and she was very cautious and hesitant - very unlike how she acts around adults with treats usually lol. I didn't think about this factor and today allowed my neighbors older kids (maybe 8 and 10) hand feed her. She'd gotten treats from the 10 yo boy earlier this week and was very confident with him. Yay!! She'd never interacted with the younger girl before who is a bit more energetic than the boy. We let her feed Echo and she was a bit nervous I let her feed the treats she had since there was no aggression (not even barking), just lowered body language and tail tucked. Noticeably more nervous "energy" than with the boy. I cut it off fairly quickly to end on a relatively positive note but I've lost confidence.
Maybe I should ask all children to toss the treats and gauge her comfort from there? If she's super confident with that we can try hand feeding? The treats coming from ME became a major issue as she'd turn around to me and get nervous that a child was approaching who may be interfering with the treat giving This is the most success we've had by far but I do NOT want to put a child at risk!! Anyone have similar experiences?! Advice??
I had been having a ton of trouble doing CC with my dog, and because it was unstructured it actually seemed to make her anxiety around kids WORSE. She used to be totally fine with older kids - so at the advice of a trainer we're starting there. She has no history of fear aggression and two trainers have said she'd not a "bite risk" but of course ANY dog can bite when afraid.
This week I've finally started allowing older kids (7+ years) ask my dog to do a trick and feed her treats out of their palms. We did this with five different kids this past week and she was GREAT. She's not a stranger loving dog so she acted how she'd typically act around any stranger with them. Responded to commands and confidently took treats - maybe a LITTLE bit of nervous excitement but I may be reading into it. I've been so excited that the first week of training was so successful!
For background, when we moved in Feb my dog developed some type of anxiety about strangers on our porch or near our apartment. We actually just recently had our adult neighbors give her treats for the first time and she was very cautious and hesitant - very unlike how she acts around adults with treats usually lol. I didn't think about this factor and today allowed my neighbors older kids (maybe 8 and 10) hand feed her. She'd gotten treats from the 10 yo boy earlier this week and was very confident with him. Yay!! She'd never interacted with the younger girl before who is a bit more energetic than the boy. We let her feed Echo and she was a bit nervous I let her feed the treats she had since there was no aggression (not even barking), just lowered body language and tail tucked. Noticeably more nervous "energy" than with the boy. I cut it off fairly quickly to end on a relatively positive note but I've lost confidence.
Maybe I should ask all children to toss the treats and gauge her comfort from there? If she's super confident with that we can try hand feeding? The treats coming from ME became a major issue as she'd turn around to me and get nervous that a child was approaching who may be interfering with the treat giving This is the most success we've had by far but I do NOT want to put a child at risk!! Anyone have similar experiences?! Advice??