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Golden retriever mix, neutered male, 4 years old.
5 months ago I rescued my boy, C, from an abusive home situation. His family was all too eager to get rid of him, and he’s such a sweet boy, that I grabbed him up. I knew that he had been being abused by one of the children, but after bringing him home, I’ve realized that it was probably many of the adult males in the home abusing him as well. I also know he witnessed the abusive child attacking a female in the home as well.
In the 5 months that I’ve had C, he’s fallen in love with my daughter and I, and our cats. He’s more on the submissive side, and will fear pee and happy pee, which he’s been doing less and less with me. However, he’s become incredibly protective over myself, my daughter, and our home. When I’ve introduced him to my female friends, he barks and acts tough, but after a bit he’ll calm down and accept them. Men however, he refuses to trust. My father comes over once every day to let C outside to potty and pick up my daughter’s tablet. My dad pets C and gives him treats, and C will calm down just long enough to happily eat the treat, get some pets, and then return to chasing my dad around the house barking and lunging at him. He’s never bitten anyone, but he will tap them with his nose and jump back and bark again. While I don’t think he will actually bite my father, I also know that fearful dogs can be unpredictable and it’s always a possibility.
Usually my dad will stand off to the side and my daughter will take C to the bathroom and whatnot, but during the times when I have to go out of town for work and my daughter isn’t a available, C will not eat or go outside to potty. He will simply follow my dad around barking at him. Is there anything we can do to help make C feel more comfortable around my father?
Let me know if I need to add any more information! Thank you!
5 months ago I rescued my boy, C, from an abusive home situation. His family was all too eager to get rid of him, and he’s such a sweet boy, that I grabbed him up. I knew that he had been being abused by one of the children, but after bringing him home, I’ve realized that it was probably many of the adult males in the home abusing him as well. I also know he witnessed the abusive child attacking a female in the home as well.
In the 5 months that I’ve had C, he’s fallen in love with my daughter and I, and our cats. He’s more on the submissive side, and will fear pee and happy pee, which he’s been doing less and less with me. However, he’s become incredibly protective over myself, my daughter, and our home. When I’ve introduced him to my female friends, he barks and acts tough, but after a bit he’ll calm down and accept them. Men however, he refuses to trust. My father comes over once every day to let C outside to potty and pick up my daughter’s tablet. My dad pets C and gives him treats, and C will calm down just long enough to happily eat the treat, get some pets, and then return to chasing my dad around the house barking and lunging at him. He’s never bitten anyone, but he will tap them with his nose and jump back and bark again. While I don’t think he will actually bite my father, I also know that fearful dogs can be unpredictable and it’s always a possibility.
Usually my dad will stand off to the side and my daughter will take C to the bathroom and whatnot, but during the times when I have to go out of town for work and my daughter isn’t a available, C will not eat or go outside to potty. He will simply follow my dad around barking at him. Is there anything we can do to help make C feel more comfortable around my father?
Let me know if I need to add any more information! Thank you!