TLDR: 11 month old Lab mix w/ separation anxiety that seems to have just recently come outta nowhere- I’ve tried a lotta stuff; nothing is working; she’s hurting herself & she’s wrecking our home. Any advice is welcome!
So we have an 11 month old Lab mix- we got her as a puppy; and up until around 2 months ago she never had any issues w/ either crate anxiety or separation anxiety; but now she’s got it bad. Nothing in the day-to-day routine of her life has changed- it just seems to have come out of nowhere.
A list of things I’ve tried to help her w/ the anxiety:
Ik a lot of times w/ dog training consistency is key; and so maybe I should/ should have just picked one tactic & stuck to it- but the stakes (her hurting herself/ her destroying our rented home/ us getting into trouble w/ our landlord over the noise complaints) are just too high.
At this point; all I can think of is muzzling her (to keep her from barking excessively; but more importantly to keep her from hurting her nose); and/ or getting her on CBD or puppy prozac. Neither of those seems like great options to me tho. Ik the muzzle would only solve the practical issues of her hurting herself & of the neighbors complaining; while exacerbating the underlying issue of her misery. And CBD/ prozac- idk. Seems like something else that would just solve the issue at a shallow level, rather than get to the root of it. Plus, I’m concerned about potential side-affects. If I’d love to hear other thoughts on this; as well as any/ all other suggestions.
Also, allow me to state the obvious, and say that two alternates would be dog training and/ or doggie daycare. I’m considering both; but I’ll be honest & say that money is tight rn; and that those also aren’t great options for us for that reason. If anyone knows of any affordable training/ daycare resources; I’d love to have that info available to me tho!
Lastly, I wanna be clear that this is not crate-anxiety; it’s def separation anxiety. She goes in her crate w/ no prompting & no problem all the time. She plays w/ her toys in there; she chews her bully sticks in there, she takes naps in there, she has her “cool down breaks” in there, when she’s misbehaving. She seems to genuinely enjoy it- provided one or both of my husband or I am in the room. We worked on crate-training her as soon as we got her; as part of her potty-training regimen; and had great luck w/ both. She used to sleep in it every night w/ no issue when she was a baby & she needed to; and to this day she’ll oftentimes choose to sleep in it at night (w/ the door open); in spite of the fact that she’s allowed in our bed.
So we have an 11 month old Lab mix- we got her as a puppy; and up until around 2 months ago she never had any issues w/ either crate anxiety or separation anxiety; but now she’s got it bad. Nothing in the day-to-day routine of her life has changed- it just seems to have come out of nowhere.
A list of things I’ve tried to help her w/ the anxiety:
- Multiple different crates- wire, padded, and plastic. She chewed thru the padded & the plastic; and w/ the wire- she rubs her face against it trying to get out hard enough that she’s left sores on her face.
- Coming home several times during the workday to walk her. As soon as I leave; it’s right back to barking and/ or destruction.
- Leaving her in the crate w/ regular toys, puzzle toys, long-lasting chews, bully sticks, Kongs filled w/ peanut butter, etc. She just ignores all of it & goes right back to barking/ destruction.
- Crating her alongside our 2nd dog- all it did was make our 2nd dog equally miserable.
- “Puppy-proofing” our bedroom & leaving her in it free-roam (albeit, w/ the door closed); again w/ toys, treats, etc; and again; alongside our 2nd dog. No amount of puppy proofing could have been good enough. She scratched the paint off our bedroom door & ripped up about a foot of wall-to-wall carpeting.
- Pointing the TV towards her crate & streaming nature documentaries, classical music concerts, etc. No noticeable difference.
- The ThunderShirt. No noticeable difference.
- A play pen set up in the living room. No match for her jumping skills.
Ik a lot of times w/ dog training consistency is key; and so maybe I should/ should have just picked one tactic & stuck to it- but the stakes (her hurting herself/ her destroying our rented home/ us getting into trouble w/ our landlord over the noise complaints) are just too high.
At this point; all I can think of is muzzling her (to keep her from barking excessively; but more importantly to keep her from hurting her nose); and/ or getting her on CBD or puppy prozac. Neither of those seems like great options to me tho. Ik the muzzle would only solve the practical issues of her hurting herself & of the neighbors complaining; while exacerbating the underlying issue of her misery. And CBD/ prozac- idk. Seems like something else that would just solve the issue at a shallow level, rather than get to the root of it. Plus, I’m concerned about potential side-affects. If I’d love to hear other thoughts on this; as well as any/ all other suggestions.
Also, allow me to state the obvious, and say that two alternates would be dog training and/ or doggie daycare. I’m considering both; but I’ll be honest & say that money is tight rn; and that those also aren’t great options for us for that reason. If anyone knows of any affordable training/ daycare resources; I’d love to have that info available to me tho!
Lastly, I wanna be clear that this is not crate-anxiety; it’s def separation anxiety. She goes in her crate w/ no prompting & no problem all the time. She plays w/ her toys in there; she chews her bully sticks in there, she takes naps in there, she has her “cool down breaks” in there, when she’s misbehaving. She seems to genuinely enjoy it- provided one or both of my husband or I am in the room. We worked on crate-training her as soon as we got her; as part of her potty-training regimen; and had great luck w/ both. She used to sleep in it every night w/ no issue when she was a baby & she needed to; and to this day she’ll oftentimes choose to sleep in it at night (w/ the door open); in spite of the fact that she’s allowed in our bed.