torak_skye
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Husband and I are looking after a friends puppy for a couple weeks. I’m looking for advice from people more experienced than us as we’ve never had a dog.
She’s 12 weeks old and hasn’t been exposed outdoors much e.g. cars, bright lights. Took her on a 10-15min walk this evening to get her familiar with outside and she was anxious and whining the entire time. I wanted to bring her back sooner but husband said to keep her out a bit to get her used to it.
Once we arrived back outside the house, she was clearly a bit anxious, whining a little and eager to get in. I thought we should just let her back in but husband said you have to keep her out until all whining stops and then she can be let back in when they’re fully calm so they “don’t associate the walk with negativity”. This sounded like bullshit to me and I just wanted to get her inside, but he made her wait a couple mins until the whining subsided a little. I felt bad as it was cold (11 celsius) and she was tired.
She was still a little anxious and shaking for a couple mins inside but then she was fine. My point is it made no difference waiting for her to calm down at the door as she was still anxious when we got in. I think my husbands’s approach is mean and bullshit. Any advice would be appreciated.
She’s 12 weeks old and hasn’t been exposed outdoors much e.g. cars, bright lights. Took her on a 10-15min walk this evening to get her familiar with outside and she was anxious and whining the entire time. I wanted to bring her back sooner but husband said to keep her out a bit to get her used to it.
Once we arrived back outside the house, she was clearly a bit anxious, whining a little and eager to get in. I thought we should just let her back in but husband said you have to keep her out until all whining stops and then she can be let back in when they’re fully calm so they “don’t associate the walk with negativity”. This sounded like bullshit to me and I just wanted to get her inside, but he made her wait a couple mins until the whining subsided a little. I felt bad as it was cold (11 celsius) and she was tired.
She was still a little anxious and shaking for a couple mins inside but then she was fine. My point is it made no difference waiting for her to calm down at the door as she was still anxious when we got in. I think my husbands’s approach is mean and bullshit. Any advice would be appreciated.