I’m a cross over trainer, kinda. I went from balanced training and after being failed by multiple trainers I transitioned over to R+. For more Detail on this one trainer got my dog attacked in class and blamed me for it, I was questioned and made to feel like a fool for wanting to use a clicker, one trainers idea of getting her dog to be quiet in its crate was to scream and throw shit at the dog and it goes on. I realize now these trainers just sucked regardless of their methods.
I called my self a positive reinforcement trainer till I sat in a class with a strictly R+ trainer. When a dog jumped on her she did absolutely nothing and the dog just stayed there paws on her and she ignored the dog and it was more than happy just stand there. I would turn away from the dog, no knee, no correction but I’d stop the behavior from continuing and then call the dog back me give it a cue for the replacement Behavior. This made me realize I was still using P- and suddenly couldn’t call myself a positive only trainer. I made my whole training circle R+ people and slowly started seeing small issues. It took a while since I own a dog that is extremely sensitive, I could look at him wrong and he’d cower. He thrives on R+ and P-, P+ is too harsh for him and In the beginning correcting him for dog reactivity made it worse. Counter conditioning using the CARE method literally solved all our issues within four months and we still practice but it’s been years without issue. I thought P+ was useless seeing as it never helped my dog and only made things worse.
Wellll lucky me! I adopted a German Shepherd mix with dog aggression, human aggression and an over stimulation problem. I did all the same steps with her as I did my other dogs and she can pass other dogs on leash with out reacting but she still gets stimulated so easy and starts pulling and going crazy over very little things. Woods walks are a nightmare. Our R+ advice was to slowly work our way up to woods walks, getting her good with leash skills else where... this dog will pull on a head halter so hard her head will be turned backward facing me and her body will be still going forward with all her might. Frontal clips do nothing except cause her to limp due to her intense pulling. It’s. Been. Four. Years. After this four years we started her on medication and she was finally able to take treats on walks and she made improvements but they are minor.
I decided to try putting a chain martingale on her to see how she’d react to leash corrections and we went for a woods walk. She did great. One of the best walks we went on. My body didn’t hurt afterwards and she seemed to understand what I was trying to communicate.
So now my whole training world is being turned upside down. I went from a prong advocate, to corrections are evil, to wtf am I even doing anymore.
My whole circle is R+. Everyone I know, everything I’ve fought for. And here I am about to go buy a prong and hid it under a damn bandana. I stopped doing classes a while ago and have had the biggest training identity crisis you could imagine. In class I never had a dog that wasn’t trainable through R+ and P-. I also never had to deal with a dog like the one I adopted.
It hurts since I’d see the post from people claiming R+ doesn’t work on high drive dogs and fought against it. Maybe for the R+ trainer that can put years into a dog it doesn’t matter but I have put so much effort into this dog I feel like I’ve failed her.
I don’t know what to do anymore. I really like the people in my circle but I know they would absolutely hate me if they knew I was considering buying a prong. I feel so conflicted.
I wonder if I just need to keep trying harder with my dog. I wonder what they would do if they owned her. Idk I’d love to read others thoughts on this. Either to ease my mind or if anyone has advice for me to try.
I called my self a positive reinforcement trainer till I sat in a class with a strictly R+ trainer. When a dog jumped on her she did absolutely nothing and the dog just stayed there paws on her and she ignored the dog and it was more than happy just stand there. I would turn away from the dog, no knee, no correction but I’d stop the behavior from continuing and then call the dog back me give it a cue for the replacement Behavior. This made me realize I was still using P- and suddenly couldn’t call myself a positive only trainer. I made my whole training circle R+ people and slowly started seeing small issues. It took a while since I own a dog that is extremely sensitive, I could look at him wrong and he’d cower. He thrives on R+ and P-, P+ is too harsh for him and In the beginning correcting him for dog reactivity made it worse. Counter conditioning using the CARE method literally solved all our issues within four months and we still practice but it’s been years without issue. I thought P+ was useless seeing as it never helped my dog and only made things worse.
Wellll lucky me! I adopted a German Shepherd mix with dog aggression, human aggression and an over stimulation problem. I did all the same steps with her as I did my other dogs and she can pass other dogs on leash with out reacting but she still gets stimulated so easy and starts pulling and going crazy over very little things. Woods walks are a nightmare. Our R+ advice was to slowly work our way up to woods walks, getting her good with leash skills else where... this dog will pull on a head halter so hard her head will be turned backward facing me and her body will be still going forward with all her might. Frontal clips do nothing except cause her to limp due to her intense pulling. It’s. Been. Four. Years. After this four years we started her on medication and she was finally able to take treats on walks and she made improvements but they are minor.
I decided to try putting a chain martingale on her to see how she’d react to leash corrections and we went for a woods walk. She did great. One of the best walks we went on. My body didn’t hurt afterwards and she seemed to understand what I was trying to communicate.
So now my whole training world is being turned upside down. I went from a prong advocate, to corrections are evil, to wtf am I even doing anymore.
My whole circle is R+. Everyone I know, everything I’ve fought for. And here I am about to go buy a prong and hid it under a damn bandana. I stopped doing classes a while ago and have had the biggest training identity crisis you could imagine. In class I never had a dog that wasn’t trainable through R+ and P-. I also never had to deal with a dog like the one I adopted.
It hurts since I’d see the post from people claiming R+ doesn’t work on high drive dogs and fought against it. Maybe for the R+ trainer that can put years into a dog it doesn’t matter but I have put so much effort into this dog I feel like I’ve failed her.
I don’t know what to do anymore. I really like the people in my circle but I know they would absolutely hate me if they knew I was considering buying a prong. I feel so conflicted.
I wonder if I just need to keep trying harder with my dog. I wonder what they would do if they owned her. Idk I’d love to read others thoughts on this. Either to ease my mind or if anyone has advice for me to try.