pyroisonfire
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My family has a young mixed breed, predominantly a shepherd mix named Roxie. She’s about a medium sized dog. I’m not really a dog person, but I do love them! I just don’t understand their behaviours.
I don’t discipline her or mistreat her in any way. Typically we just leave one another alone. But when we’re in a situation where she has to be near me, she seems so afraid and it makes me sad.
I know it’s definitely my fault though, because she tends to chase after my cat when she’s with my cousin’s dog, Milo. When Milo or Roxie are on their own, they don’t chase, but they seem to spur one another on. So when I see the two of them around my cat, I will stand over him and protect him. I don’t shout at them or scare them away, it seems just my presence is enough to deter them.
As a result though, Roxie always rolls over when I come near her with her tail tucked way between her legs. She used to even pee when I came near her, which makes me feel terrible. She always runs away from me, and if we cross paths, she lowers her head and makes herself as small as possible. She’s never acted aggressively towards me though. I really don’t want her or Milo to chase my cat, but I don’t want her to be afraid. That’s not fair to her. Is there anything else I can do to help her feel more comfortable? Should I just leave her alone?
Edit: Milo is a very food motivated small terrier/pug mix, and he’s very smart, so it was easy to win him over with treats. Roxie is too scared of me to even take the food :/
Edit2: I also just in general don’t understand the way I’m supposed to interact with a dog. I don’t want her to think I’m trying to ‘dominate’ her or something like that, I don’t know whether I should make eye contact or whether I should talk happily or calmly. Cats are a lot easier to read to me lol
I don’t discipline her or mistreat her in any way. Typically we just leave one another alone. But when we’re in a situation where she has to be near me, she seems so afraid and it makes me sad.
I know it’s definitely my fault though, because she tends to chase after my cat when she’s with my cousin’s dog, Milo. When Milo or Roxie are on their own, they don’t chase, but they seem to spur one another on. So when I see the two of them around my cat, I will stand over him and protect him. I don’t shout at them or scare them away, it seems just my presence is enough to deter them.
As a result though, Roxie always rolls over when I come near her with her tail tucked way between her legs. She used to even pee when I came near her, which makes me feel terrible. She always runs away from me, and if we cross paths, she lowers her head and makes herself as small as possible. She’s never acted aggressively towards me though. I really don’t want her or Milo to chase my cat, but I don’t want her to be afraid. That’s not fair to her. Is there anything else I can do to help her feel more comfortable? Should I just leave her alone?
Edit: Milo is a very food motivated small terrier/pug mix, and he’s very smart, so it was easy to win him over with treats. Roxie is too scared of me to even take the food :/
Edit2: I also just in general don’t understand the way I’m supposed to interact with a dog. I don’t want her to think I’m trying to ‘dominate’ her or something like that, I don’t know whether I should make eye contact or whether I should talk happily or calmly. Cats are a lot easier to read to me lol