We brought our German Shepherd home a week and two days ago on Sunday (she was 8 weeks old). She has been pretty well behaved and sweet, toilet training has also been going well. This last Sunday (a week after we got her) we brought home our second pup - a golden doodle, he is also 8 weeks old. They have been at each-other since we brought him home. She is very dominant and serious about toy hoarding. If the doodle is playing with ANY chew toy, she always takes it from him.
The real issue is that I am having a hard time distinguishing whether they're playing or actually fighting. The GSD seems to be the aggressor and always seems to be pinning down the doodle and biting his neck. He yelps but she doesn't stop and then I feel the need to intervene. It breaks my heart because I feel like I am always giving her shit. The aggression does seem to be a little lighter as time progresses, and when they lay down at my feet they seem to kind of lay next to one another with bodies touching and have even laid heads on one another, even if only for a minute.
I cannot tell if they are actually fighting or just playing. I keep reading online advice and yet I am no closer to knowing. I did enroll them both in puppy classes which they can only participate in once they are 3 months old (they start July 6th). But until then I really need to figure out if they're just playing or seriously fighting. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated!
The real issue is that I am having a hard time distinguishing whether they're playing or actually fighting. The GSD seems to be the aggressor and always seems to be pinning down the doodle and biting his neck. He yelps but she doesn't stop and then I feel the need to intervene. It breaks my heart because I feel like I am always giving her shit. The aggression does seem to be a little lighter as time progresses, and when they lay down at my feet they seem to kind of lay next to one another with bodies touching and have even laid heads on one another, even if only for a minute.
I cannot tell if they are actually fighting or just playing. I keep reading online advice and yet I am no closer to knowing. I did enroll them both in puppy classes which they can only participate in once they are 3 months old (they start July 6th). But until then I really need to figure out if they're just playing or seriously fighting. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated!