I’ll just start by saying this isn’t my dog - he lives with me 1 week of the month and I’ve told his owner countless times that something is wrong.
My dad owns a 1yr old dalmadoodle (what a cross I know). He’s not been neutered. My dad has less than idea ways of ‘training’ he either rewards the behaviour (e.g food, playing, petting) and then loses his temper and physically punishes him. To the point where he now flinches. It’s awful to see. The living situation is he lives with my dad 2 weeks of the month and then visits us for 4-7 days. I think it’ll be easier to just lost his behavioural problems:
-no recall, to the point where if you let him off the lead he was run away from you and often has to be caught by strangers because he will not be caught.
-he paws and jumps up constantly and he was a very large god
-he cannot settle himself for example today he’s been a walk this morning and a 3.5 mile run. He has not stopped pacing or pestering for 2 hours.
-he is extremely jealous of my mum, he’s not aggressive but I don’t like the way he is so hyperactive around her. Constantly sniffing chasing and pawing. He even cocks his leg on her sometimes to pee? Can someone explain why he does this to me?
I know this is not a happy dog. And it’s not making for a happy house - we’re constantly stressed because he just won’t settle. We have 2 cats and I’m worried he may escalate to aggression at some point. He’s so sweet currently but his behaviour is worse every time.
What can I do to at least alleviate his problems while he visits? I know he needs help but my dad refuses. Any time I mention his behaviour he acts like I’m being completely unreasonable and he’s not with me for long enough to do any good what won’t be undone. I’m desperate I hate being in my own home with this dog
My dad owns a 1yr old dalmadoodle (what a cross I know). He’s not been neutered. My dad has less than idea ways of ‘training’ he either rewards the behaviour (e.g food, playing, petting) and then loses his temper and physically punishes him. To the point where he now flinches. It’s awful to see. The living situation is he lives with my dad 2 weeks of the month and then visits us for 4-7 days. I think it’ll be easier to just lost his behavioural problems:
-no recall, to the point where if you let him off the lead he was run away from you and often has to be caught by strangers because he will not be caught.
-he paws and jumps up constantly and he was a very large god
-he cannot settle himself for example today he’s been a walk this morning and a 3.5 mile run. He has not stopped pacing or pestering for 2 hours.
-he is extremely jealous of my mum, he’s not aggressive but I don’t like the way he is so hyperactive around her. Constantly sniffing chasing and pawing. He even cocks his leg on her sometimes to pee? Can someone explain why he does this to me?
I know this is not a happy dog. And it’s not making for a happy house - we’re constantly stressed because he just won’t settle. We have 2 cats and I’m worried he may escalate to aggression at some point. He’s so sweet currently but his behaviour is worse every time.
What can I do to at least alleviate his problems while he visits? I know he needs help but my dad refuses. Any time I mention his behaviour he acts like I’m being completely unreasonable and he’s not with me for long enough to do any good what won’t be undone. I’m desperate I hate being in my own home with this dog