proverbsmom
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Hi everyone. New to this subreddit.
My wife and I got Leia when she was 2 in Texas from a shelter. She was found on the street pregnant and abandoned. When we picked her up the description said quiet and good with kids. She instantly won our hearts. She is 20 lbs.
For over a year, she was perfect. She’d play with other dogs, did well at doggy daycare. She only had ONE alarming incident, where we brought over a dog after owning her for about a month... and she just charged and snarled and barked the other dog into submission immediately upon seeing her. So we just assumed it was territorial and refused any dogs to come over, but she was fine outside of her home.
Before we moved, she was attacked by 2 bigger dogs. She was unharmed but I’m not sure if that affected her.
Then we moved to VA and everything changed. We temporarily stayed 3 months at my parents place who have a 16 year old Jack Russel/Dachshund mix. They got into fights every single day for the first few weeks. My dad said it was because they’re both alpha dogs and they were trying to set boundaries. 1.5 years later, Leia and my parents dog get along just fine now, but they never play. They sort of just accept that the other exists and I guess they set their boundaries.
But now, every time a dog approaches her on a walk, she usually ignores them, until they sniff her butt or put their face in front of hers. No matter how playful the other dog is, once they “cross a line” Leia barks and snaps at the other dog. I can tell this is out of fear, but I have no idea what happened. I reactively would grab her snout and say “no,” but after doing research, I’m afraid that might have reinforced her behavior.
I tried taking her to a doggy daycare once since she was great with them in TX, but she “failed” the assessment when a Corgi snuck up behind her to sniff her butt and she did her barking, snarling, advancing on the corgi into submission.
She has also snapped at neighborhood toddlers before who got up in her business and tried to pet her improperly. So far she has not bitten anyone.
We’re planning to move back to TX, and wife is pregnant; we’re worried about how she’d be with a baby.
We don’t mind accepting that she might just not like other dogs and doing some desensitizing training with her to just ignore other dogs. I’m open to other suggestions, even taking her to a behavioral trainer. But is it true that when a kid if a dog’s master’s, they tend to be okay with them? Any suggestions about things I can do to help curb Leia’s aggression before it gets to a point of no return?
I’m anxious and scared for my pupper. We love her and she’s so good with adult humans (even strangers). Any and all advice and reassurance is welcome. Thank you.
My wife and I got Leia when she was 2 in Texas from a shelter. She was found on the street pregnant and abandoned. When we picked her up the description said quiet and good with kids. She instantly won our hearts. She is 20 lbs.
For over a year, she was perfect. She’d play with other dogs, did well at doggy daycare. She only had ONE alarming incident, where we brought over a dog after owning her for about a month... and she just charged and snarled and barked the other dog into submission immediately upon seeing her. So we just assumed it was territorial and refused any dogs to come over, but she was fine outside of her home.
Before we moved, she was attacked by 2 bigger dogs. She was unharmed but I’m not sure if that affected her.
Then we moved to VA and everything changed. We temporarily stayed 3 months at my parents place who have a 16 year old Jack Russel/Dachshund mix. They got into fights every single day for the first few weeks. My dad said it was because they’re both alpha dogs and they were trying to set boundaries. 1.5 years later, Leia and my parents dog get along just fine now, but they never play. They sort of just accept that the other exists and I guess they set their boundaries.
But now, every time a dog approaches her on a walk, she usually ignores them, until they sniff her butt or put their face in front of hers. No matter how playful the other dog is, once they “cross a line” Leia barks and snaps at the other dog. I can tell this is out of fear, but I have no idea what happened. I reactively would grab her snout and say “no,” but after doing research, I’m afraid that might have reinforced her behavior.
I tried taking her to a doggy daycare once since she was great with them in TX, but she “failed” the assessment when a Corgi snuck up behind her to sniff her butt and she did her barking, snarling, advancing on the corgi into submission.
She has also snapped at neighborhood toddlers before who got up in her business and tried to pet her improperly. So far she has not bitten anyone.
We’re planning to move back to TX, and wife is pregnant; we’re worried about how she’d be with a baby.
We don’t mind accepting that she might just not like other dogs and doing some desensitizing training with her to just ignore other dogs. I’m open to other suggestions, even taking her to a behavioral trainer. But is it true that when a kid if a dog’s master’s, they tend to be okay with them? Any suggestions about things I can do to help curb Leia’s aggression before it gets to a point of no return?
I’m anxious and scared for my pupper. We love her and she’s so good with adult humans (even strangers). Any and all advice and reassurance is welcome. Thank you.