I'm not totally sure if this is the best place to post this, but it's not really a training problem, I think.
My boyfriend and I adopted a little terrier mix/mutt yesterday morning. He's been taking really well to his new name, his new home, and generally been very well-behaved. Thing is, he's become considerably more attached to my boyfriend than me. Follows him around everywhere, always wants to cuddle up to him, only wants to play with boyfriend, not me. He used to be a stray so he's already partially trained. He listens to both of our commands, mostly, but he listens better to my boyfriend. And we got him a squeaky toy he ended up liking and gets all excited and fetches it when boyfriend throws it but ignores it when I try to play with him.
I'll admit, I'm really jealous about this but I'm kind of confused about how such an attachment even came about so quickly. My running theory is that for about 2 hours yesterday I was running errands and in that time my boyfriend took dog for a long walk and cuddled up with him on the couch. Maybe that's all it took, some alone time. Also, if our little family were a pack, I get the feeling our little mutt thinks he's above me in ranking. On our evening walk last night he kept pulling on the leash and I noticed that he wants to walk right at pace with my boyfriend (who walks slightly ahead of me since he's tall and I'm short and that's how we are unless he slows down for me) which I guess means he acknowledged boyfriend as pack leader.
I know it's really only been a day and I'm probably getting ahead of myself but I just want someone to explain this to me, I guess.
My boyfriend and I adopted a little terrier mix/mutt yesterday morning. He's been taking really well to his new name, his new home, and generally been very well-behaved. Thing is, he's become considerably more attached to my boyfriend than me. Follows him around everywhere, always wants to cuddle up to him, only wants to play with boyfriend, not me. He used to be a stray so he's already partially trained. He listens to both of our commands, mostly, but he listens better to my boyfriend. And we got him a squeaky toy he ended up liking and gets all excited and fetches it when boyfriend throws it but ignores it when I try to play with him.
I'll admit, I'm really jealous about this but I'm kind of confused about how such an attachment even came about so quickly. My running theory is that for about 2 hours yesterday I was running errands and in that time my boyfriend took dog for a long walk and cuddled up with him on the couch. Maybe that's all it took, some alone time. Also, if our little family were a pack, I get the feeling our little mutt thinks he's above me in ranking. On our evening walk last night he kept pulling on the leash and I noticed that he wants to walk right at pace with my boyfriend (who walks slightly ahead of me since he's tall and I'm short and that's how we are unless he slows down for me) which I guess means he acknowledged boyfriend as pack leader.
I know it's really only been a day and I'm probably getting ahead of myself but I just want someone to explain this to me, I guess.