a little background info first, my dog is a female American Staff around 4 years old. My partner & I rescued her almost a year ago. we know nothing about where she came from as she was likely a breed & dump situation. But all things considered she’s been a really great dog since day one & we love having her.
now, ever since we brought her home she’s been pretty needy, but I feel like it’s only gotten worse. as in wants to be with us 24/7, wants to be in your lap the second you sit down, has to be able to see us at all times & will cry if she can hear us but not see us, constantly underfoot, nudging & licking for attention even if we’re sleeping, getting literally within in an inch of our faces & just staring, stresses out if one of us leaves (but doesn’t care whatsoever when we both are gone and she’s left alone) the list goes on. I’m happy she loves us but it becomes really annoying to constantly be tripping over her, smothered by her or feeling her eyes burning into you all day everyday.
I know all of these are signs of a bored, under-stimulated dog but there’s absolutely no reason for her to be like that. She’s almost never left alone, has access to a large backyard whenever she wants, goes for at least 1 long walk a day, has a million toys for her to play with both alone & with us, we got her a cat to play with and they’re besties, we’re constantly finding new ways to play with her & entertain her. I just don’t understand what more she needs from us to not be so up our asses. lol.
maybe it’s the result of us spoiling her too much or something. But I don’t know what to do differently to make her less desperate
now, ever since we brought her home she’s been pretty needy, but I feel like it’s only gotten worse. as in wants to be with us 24/7, wants to be in your lap the second you sit down, has to be able to see us at all times & will cry if she can hear us but not see us, constantly underfoot, nudging & licking for attention even if we’re sleeping, getting literally within in an inch of our faces & just staring, stresses out if one of us leaves (but doesn’t care whatsoever when we both are gone and she’s left alone) the list goes on. I’m happy she loves us but it becomes really annoying to constantly be tripping over her, smothered by her or feeling her eyes burning into you all day everyday.
I know all of these are signs of a bored, under-stimulated dog but there’s absolutely no reason for her to be like that. She’s almost never left alone, has access to a large backyard whenever she wants, goes for at least 1 long walk a day, has a million toys for her to play with both alone & with us, we got her a cat to play with and they’re besties, we’re constantly finding new ways to play with her & entertain her. I just don’t understand what more she needs from us to not be so up our asses. lol.
maybe it’s the result of us spoiling her too much or something. But I don’t know what to do differently to make her less desperate