What would you do? We’ve been fostering a super sweet 6-year-old beagle, and we may be able to adopt her soon. But, we’re honestly struggling if we should.
I have two young kids (2 and 4)…so they’re loud and still learning how to respect personal space and use gentle hands. Our foster is not aggressive at all, but isn’t used to living with kids, so she spends a lot of her time hiding upstairs away from the kids. We’ve had her for about a month and she is slowly opening up a little bit more and hangs out with all of us from time to time—usually at bedtime; she will snuggle with them when they’re settled in on the couch or in bed. She’s very attached to me and will try to hang out with me, but if the kids are loud (which is often, because #kids
) she runs to hide upstairs.
Our previous dog was also a rescue, so I do know they take time to come out of their shell and settle in. Part of us feels like we may not get a better dog for this current season of life we’re in, but part of us feels that she may do better with a quieter older couple. The shelter says she seems very happy and not stressed, and I plan on talking with them when she does become available for adoption, but what would you do?
I have two young kids (2 and 4)…so they’re loud and still learning how to respect personal space and use gentle hands. Our foster is not aggressive at all, but isn’t used to living with kids, so she spends a lot of her time hiding upstairs away from the kids. We’ve had her for about a month and she is slowly opening up a little bit more and hangs out with all of us from time to time—usually at bedtime; she will snuggle with them when they’re settled in on the couch or in bed. She’s very attached to me and will try to hang out with me, but if the kids are loud (which is often, because #kids
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Our previous dog was also a rescue, so I do know they take time to come out of their shell and settle in. Part of us feels like we may not get a better dog for this current season of life we’re in, but part of us feels that she may do better with a quieter older couple. The shelter says she seems very happy and not stressed, and I plan on talking with them when she does become available for adoption, but what would you do?